Allow users to actually attach to the correct person and not be forced with a mismatch
On multiple occasions, an individual is forced to be mismatched or ignored. In this and many other similar cases I've encountered, the mother signed a child's school record using her maiden name such as Mrs A. G. Hunt. But the system now only allows matching to the husband, A.G. Hunt in this case. There is no ability to change parent order, move the incorrect match to the correct person, indicate non-match, etc.
PLEASE allow users to exercise some control by allowing them to move a suggested match to the appropriate person.