Is this really the place to ask questions about living and recently deceased members of ones family?
There was another very personal query just posted, about a very tragic case in the person's family. As before, I once again have to query whether this is the right forum to ask for further details of "lost" relatives, or about recent events relating to ones close family.
Other relatives of the people mentioned - and/or those who the individuals posting here might wish to contact - might feel very upset if they were affected by what is written here. For example, what if a person does not wish to be "found" by a "long-lost" relative? Or if they did not want the tragic demise of their relative mentioned in a public forum?
I continue to remain very uncomfortable about the nature of some of the highly personal queries posted here.