I just found out that my father is not my father so how do I find my real father my mothers name was Pam spargo Aide
@LegacyUser Were you able to find some answers to your questions? Perhaps trying the "adoption" group would help you sort out some of your questions. Go to "Groups" and put in "adoption" in the search box. Add your question to this group and see if they can be of help.
I am sorry to ask the obvious; but, you have not indicated any reference to these.
Please excuse the questions, they are not meant to be insensitive.
And, the questions do not all require a direct answers.
Is your your "Biological" Father's name on your "Birth Certificate"?
Were you "Adopted"? If, so; then, can you get access to the "Paper Work"?
Did your Mother have more than one Marriage?
What do you know about your immediate Family?
Is your Mother still "Living"? If, so, then, can you ask your Mother?
Are there any immediate Family/Relatives of your Mother that you can ask?
In relation to your Mother, you have advised of her Name ...
Is "Aide" her "Maiden" 'Family Name'/'Surname'?
Or, is "Aide" her "Married" 'Family Name'/'Surname'?
What "Country' (and, State; and, locality) are we talking about?
What "Time" period (ie. 'Dates'/'Years') are we talking about?
Such are all things that might help, both, you; and, us, to help you.
Again, please excuse me, I do not mean to be insensitive.