My legacy at Family Search
There are two things about Family Search that depress me as I lie here dying from cancer. The first is that I inadvertently destroyed the county of Denver by suggesting a place name change. Goodbye City and County of Denver.
The second is that when I die, because I had children by my two ex-husbands, my ex-husbands are going to get tacked onto my profile. It doesn't matter to you that they were abusive. It doesn't matter to you that my Auntie Gladys had acid thrown on her by her abusive ex-husband; she had children by him, so she's stuck with his name joined to her forever--a forever mistake.
And as a subset of that, someone will change my name from my "maiden" name--the only name I've ever borne--to that of one of my ex-husbands. Yuck. I wish you had a way for people who are on their way out of the world to make at least their own profiles the way they prefer. But within months, little hands will be manipulating mine to their own satisfaction. How depressing.