Do not let patrons delete a relationship.
FS/FT does not allow an individual to be deleted so why can a relationship be deleted? All of my ancestors are from Norway and I have been researching and adding ancestors to my family tree since 1975, when I took my first family history class in Sunday School.
About two years ago, someone from Norway discovered my family tree and started changing all of my end-of-the line ancestors who were identified by me as Mrs. Ole or Mrs. Jon, etc. Her objection, when I first contacted her was that Norwegian women do not use Mrs. because they keep their maiden name. I told her that FS/FT does not want to have a wife known as NN or Unknown, but asks that the wife be listed as Mrs. along with the husband's name. That explanation did not satisfy her.
She has continued to change or delete the relationship to the wives in my family tree for at least two years. After I asked her not to change a Mrs. Jon to unknown, she started changing the word Unknown to Ukjent, which is the Norwegian name for Unknown. Now I have about a hundred Mrs. Jon or Mrs. Ole being sealed to Ukjent. When I wrote Nina to say that FS/FT did not want the wife's name to be changed to Ukjent, she started changing the Mrs. Jon or Ole to Fru. Now I have a ton of Frus in my family tree.
Today, I noticed that my AXEL did not have a wife. When I looked at the changes done to AXEL, I saw that AXEL's wife, MRS. AXEL had been deleted as the mother of ANNE AXELSDATTER. If I didn't remember that I had added this couple as parents of ANNE, I would have added another mother and the first MRS. AXEL GLHD-RYY, with her ordinances reserved, would have no family because she had deleted her as the mother and the SP would not be reserved nor the SS.
I have asked the missionaries who man the help line for help to contact her. I have heard back from FS telling me what she is doing is not abuse. One brother said he thought it fit in the category of malicious behavior. However, I got a message back from FS telling me it is not malicious. Could you please keep patrons from the ability to DELETE relationships? Also, she deletes my sources and alternative names and my relationships to family members. PLEASE HELP!