Is there some direct e-mail or link to ask for The temple Ordinaces on a Person to be checked?
I use to just e-mail my concern and then I would receive an answer
The place to post such questions is in the Temple section of QandA aka Help Center. If there are any privacy concerns, just post a general question such as "I need ordinances checked but do not want to post private information here. Please contact me." so that a moderator will send you a direct message for information.