I need to be able to reject parts of the merge.
For instance, I was merging a duplicate John Parker (GH7J-V11) with the existing John Franklin Parker (GHMD-Q7W). The son, George Washington Parker (LH75-GHV) had John Parker as father with no spouse/mother. George also had John Franklin Parker and his wife, Nicey Jane Holloway (GSQ2-RSB) as parents. This is correct. When I tried to merge John and John Franklin, the new process wanted to keep both "sets" of parents. In the old process, I could have rejected this and it would all have fixed itself cleanly. (I reverted to the old process to do just this.) In the new process, both "sets" of parents would have shown and then I would have had to actually delete the relationship between father and son in the set of parents without the wife. Most people don't know to do this (trust me, I have had to clean up a LOT of situations like this). Please adjust the new process to allow for rejecting parts of the merge.