My husband and I would like to have her membership and ordinances restored. as quickly as possible
The following Help Center article gives the steps for you to follow. You will need to talk to your Bishop about this issue.
When should I obtain permission before performing ordinances for the deceased?
In certain situations, you must obtain permission before performing a temple ordinance for someone who has died. These include:
For more information on these topics, please consult the Church’s General Handbook: Serving in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Section 28 and Section 38.4. You could also talk with your bishop or a ward temple and family history consultant.
We will send your request to a department who can review it. You will get a private message requesting the following information:
To view your messages please go to the envelope next to your name on the upper right side of the Community Website.